So… who am I?
There was a time when people cooperated in order to make progress. Also, people understood that they would have more fun and be productive if they were pleasant and cooperative with each other. They avoided being nasty.
These days people prefer to be nasty. They have little desire to make progress.
Many people prefer the pleasure of being nasty rather than all that get along together stuff. Today, too often the hugs are pure phoniness.